ちょうだい is a casual way to ask for something: お水ちょうだい = “give me some water”. After a verb, 見せてちょうだい is a soft “show me”. It comes from 頂戴, a humble word for “receive” that is still used politely at work: 頂戴します.
Use it withFriends OKCoworkers avoidBoss / teacher avoid
Casual and a little soft: for family and close friends. Children use it to ask for things, and parents say it to children (片付けてちょうだい), so from an adult it can sound childish or parental.
65 lines with 〜ちょうだい from 34 comedians in the library · Counts updated 2026-10-07
One performer wanted to do a bit about falling in love at a hostess club. Their partner sums it up as thinking you can pay your way into love there, and the first performer offers to act it out.
Culture note A "kyabakura" is a hostess club: customers pay to drink and chat with hostesses who keep them company.
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そこで見ててちょうだい
just watch from over there.
Textbookそこで見ていてください。"見ていて" is shortened to "見てて", and the casual "ちょうだい" replaces the polite "ください" after the て-form.
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One performer explains an unusual relationship and announces that the couple will appear on a TV show next week.
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〜ちょうだい means “give me…” (casual). ちょうだい is a casual way to ask for something: お水ちょうだい = “give me some water”. After a verb, 見せてちょうだい is a soft “show me”. It comes from 頂戴, a humble word for “receive” that is still used politely at work: 頂戴します.
Is 〜ちょうだい rude? Who can you say it to?
With friends: OK. With coworkers: avoid. With a boss or teacher: avoid. Casual and a little soft: for family and close friends. Children use it to ask for things, and parents say it to children (片付けてちょうだい), so from an adult it can sound childish or parental.
How common is 〜ちょうだい in real speech?
In 1,905 live comedy routines, 〜ちょうだい appears in 65 lines from 34 comedians.